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The Guardian - UK
The Guardian - UK
Business
Gaby Hinsliff

EXPLAINED: Feel like quitting your job or your relationship maybe you should - The Real Truth

Illustration of a cardboard box and inside it Harry and Megan waving, Nicola Sturgeon waving, a desk lamp, a keyboard, a plant and some flowers
‘Just because you could persevere with a toxic relationship, job, religious faith or political allegiance doesn’t necessarily mean you have to.’ Illustration: Martin O'Neill/The Observer

When Julia Keller dropped out of graduate school at the tender age of 19, she was fully expecting a parental lecture on why she should tough it out. Instead, to her relief, her father offered to come and fetch her. What had felt like a terrible failure at the time actually turned out to be a blessing in disguise as she found her niche in journalism instead, working her way up over the next couple of decades into a senior position as book critic and feature writer at the Chicago Tribune newspaper. But when Keller decided just over a decade ago to quit journalism, too, in order to write fiction, this time her mother was horrified.

“Her generation, even more than mine, was very much, ‘You do not quit a good job that is paying you a fair salary! Your working conditions are not terrible, you’re not in a Dickensian workhouse, how dare you quit?’” she explains over Zoom from Ohio. “She just could not fathom why anyone would do that.”

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