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UNBELIEVABLE: Rafael 2 - Caught on Camera

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Let me choose my actions with the knowledge that they will define me. Let labels be replaced by the simple act of doing

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BeesEelsAndPups · commented on 13 posts

40 minutes ago

Woman Goes On A Zoo Trip With Parents, People Smell A Planned Trip To Cheat And Play The Victim
Woman Goes On A Zoo Trip With Parents, People Smell A Planned Trip To Cheat And Play The Victim

If I can take a nuanced stance here. I think it totally possible that nothing untoward happened between the GF and her ex. If she's 38, and the ex is from 20 years ago, they were basically highschool sweethearts. It's cute, but it's not necessarily the foundation for an affair. That being said, I don't really think that's the issue here. First, she says that this is all spontaneous, but also she brought an overnight bag. The next morning she sends OP a photo of herself atop an untouched bed (presumably the guest bed she slept in). So OP feels like he is being gaslit (gaslighted?). But more importantly, he told her he had a clear boundary, and she ignored that boundary. Now you can say that this boundary was unreasonable, but it existed. Without taking sides here, he has a boundary that she's unwilling to abide by. Whatever her reasons or his, they are not compatible as a couple. Time to move on.

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BeesEelsAndPups · upvoted 5 items

about 5 hours ago

Woman Goes On A Zoo Trip With Parents, People Smell A Planned Trip To Cheat And Play The Victim
Woman Goes On A Zoo Trip With Parents, People Smell A Planned Trip To Cheat And Play The Victim

My ex-husband spent time at my home sleeping on my couch for over two weeks, and it was not fun. He stayed there because our son was in the last stages of cancer. We are not friends and never will be. I take my share of the blame for our break-up but ours son's illness is the ONLY reason he stated here. Our son passed away 18 months ago and my ex has not reached out to me once. B*****d.

"Would Have Divorce Papers In My Hand": Husband Goes Viral For Treatment Of Wife During Baseball Match
"Would Have Divorce Papers In My Hand": Husband Goes Viral For Treatment Of Wife During Baseball Match

I don't really know how to judge relationships based on such short sequences, but... maybe you should make it public more often to show everyone that it's wrong.

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BeesEelsAndPups · upvoted 8 items

1 day ago

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BeesEelsAndPups · commented on 14 posts

1 day ago

39 Teachers So Infuriating, Their Students Just Had To Shame Them Online
39 Teachers So Infuriating, Their Students Just Had To Shame Them Online

I think maybe because our names vs french names are too similar. My name is Rafael, it's not a huge stretch to write Raphaël, I suppose, but it's pronounced the same way.

39 Teachers So Infuriating, Their Students Just Had To Shame Them Online
39 Teachers So Infuriating, Their Students Just Had To Shame Them Online

Yeah, my phone auto corrects me all the time. That said, I don't know what MLS is, and why it thinks MLA is not an acronym.