
UNBELIEVABLE: Rafael 2 - Caught on Camera
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BeesEelsAndPups · commented on 13 posts
40 minutes ago

But they let in Israel

If I can take a nuanced stance here. I think it totally possible that nothing untoward happened between the GF and her ex. If she's 38, and the ex is from 20 years ago, they were basically highschool sweethearts. It's cute, but it's not necessarily the foundation for an affair. That being said, I don't really think that's the issue here. First, she says that this is all spontaneous, but also she brought an overnight bag. The next morning she sends OP a photo of herself atop an untouched bed (presumably the guest bed she slept in). So OP feels like he is being gaslit (gaslighted?). But more importantly, he told her he had a clear boundary, and she ignored that boundary. Now you can say that this boundary was unreasonable, but it existed. Without taking sides here, he has a boundary that she's unwilling to abide by. Whatever her reasons or his, they are not compatible as a couple. Time to move on.

BeesEelsAndPups · upvoted 5 items
about 5 hours ago

My ex-husband spent time at my home sleeping on my couch for over two weeks, and it was not fun. He stayed there because our son was in the last stages of cancer. We are not friends and never will be. I take my share of the blame for our break-up but ours son's illness is the ONLY reason he stated here. Our son passed away 18 months ago and my ex has not reached out to me once. B*****d.

I don't really know how to judge relationships based on such short sequences, but... maybe you should make it public more often to show everyone that it's wrong.

BeesEelsAndPups · upvoted 8 items
1 day ago

Major League Soccer maybe?

Wait 32gb ram for that much ? are they really that expensive ?

BeesEelsAndPups · commented on 14 posts
1 day ago

I think maybe because our names vs french names are too similar. My name is Rafael, it's not a huge stretch to write Raphaël, I suppose, but it's pronounced the same way.

Yeah, my phone auto corrects me all the time. That said, I don't know what MLS is, and why it thinks MLA is not an acronym.