My brother took his life and we just held the funeral/memorial over the weekend. My parents wanted to get the family together to spend time together. What was supposed to be together time turned into a full on lecture/cursing match with my parents saying that my brother's passing made them look like terrible parents and that they wished they never gave birth to him while simultaneously cursing all of their living children to terrible lives for calling them out on their toxic behavior. My parents "image" as perfect parents have been destroyed by his dpassing. He was 18.