It’s literally engrained in our society, don’t feel bad. it’s what’s expected of us by everyone.
i’ve literally had to tell men that wanted to be with me, im not your mom! it was usually the cause of our breakups bc i can’t handle mothering a grown man and being attracted to him.
eta: they don’t understand it either and ive been called broken. like sorry, no, im not broken, i just don’t want to wipe your a*s??? god. hire a maid and an assistant. and a nurse and a therapist.
one last edit: i will forever hate the term “i wonder” from a partner. i wonder what time it is, i wonder where the remote is, i wonder if chicken is on sale. expecting me to answer. find out yourself! sorry, this post really resonated.
i’ve literally had to tell men that wanted to be with me, im not your mom! it was usually the cause of our breakups bc i can’t handle mothering a grown man and being attracted to him.
eta: they don’t understand it either and ive been called broken. like sorry, no, im not broken, i just don’t want to wipe your a*s??? god. hire a maid and an assistant. and a nurse and a therapist.
one last edit: i will forever hate the term “i wonder” from a partner. i wonder what time it is, i wonder where the remote is, i wonder if chicken is on sale. expecting me to answer. find out yourself! sorry, this post really resonated.