My aunt asked the sound guy to play "My Way" during the slideshow at my uncle's funeral Sinatra, his favorite song. He clicked the wrong file and my uncle's own drunk karaoke recording of it from a 2009 birthday party started playing instead, off-key, laughing through half the lyrics. By the second verse the whole room was crying and laughing at the same time, and my aunt said it was the only moment all day that actually felt like him.