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Woman Secretly Buys Niece Food After Brother’s Sexist And Fatphobic Comment, He Loses It
A young niece eating a spiral-cut fried potato on a stick, eagerly taking a bite. She is enjoying extra food.

MYSTERIOUS: Secretly buying extra food niece - What They Never Told You

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Child obesity is a significant public health concern in the U.S. According to the CDC, about one in five children and adolescents in the USA has obesity. Parents should worry about their children becoming overweight; however, some go about it the wrong way. So much so that it might even be emotionally damaging.

This family member felt that their brother’s worry about his daughter’s weight was misplaced. The parents would restrict the 14-year-old’s diet so she didn’t become overweight, but allowed her athlete brothers to eat everything in sight. The dad’s sibling felt that it was unfair and bought their niece some extra snacks. But when the parents found out, all hell broke loose.

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    Parents restricted this 14-year-old’s diet but let her brothers eat everything in sight

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    One family member felt this was unfair and started buying the niece secret snacks

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    Image credits:  LightFieldStudios/Envato (not the actual photo)

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    “She looks to be average for her height and age,” the author commented about their niece’s weight

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    Most commenters were appalled by the father’s behavior: “This is how people end up with body image issues and eating disorders”

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    However, others thought that the parents should have been consulted before taking action

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    Kornelija Viečaitė

    Kornelija Viečaitė

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    Hi there, fellow pandas! As a person (over)educated both in social sciences and literature, I'm most interested in how we connect and behave online (and sometimes in real life too.) The human experience is weird, so I try my best to put its peculiarities in writing. As a person who grew up chronically online, I now try to marry two sides of myself: the one who knows too much about MySpace, and the one who can't settle and needs to see every corner of the world.

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    Kornelija Viečaitė

    Kornelija Viečaitė

    Writer, BoredPanda staff

    Hi there, fellow pandas! As a person (over)educated both in social sciences and literature, I'm most interested in how we connect and behave online (and sometimes in real life too.) The human experience is weird, so I try my best to put its peculiarities in writing. As a person who grew up chronically online, I now try to marry two sides of myself: the one who knows too much about MySpace, and the one who can't settle and needs to see every corner of the world.

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    Power puff scientist
    Community Member
    45 minutes ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm confused by the story, how can the boys get multiple servings and have multiple snacks in the house but the girl never has any food available. What happens to her first serving? But her eating less than the boys actually makes sense. Someone who does nothing all day but sit on the couch or scroll on their phone doesnt need to eat as much as people doing sports. If she is really worried and wants to solve the malnutrition issue she should have a proper conversation with the family instead of sneaking in some snacks because as soon as they leave her house, they will go back to their own lifestyle anyway and the girl will get less again, so she is not achieving anything to help the girl long term,

    Pawsome
    Community Member
    50 minutes ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    OP is absolutely doing the right thing. I have two brothers who were always much bigger and faster eaters than I was. At one point, I started having to avoid certain food types because of health issues and they would always eat all the food I could eat. I ended up going to be hungry pretty frequently until I could buy my own snacks and hid them (even though my big brother flipped out over me not sharing them). It is absolutely not fun to not be able to eat enough. I was not starving, but I had lost enough weight to be underweight and as a result my health suffered.

    Power puff scientist
    Community Member
    45 minutes ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm confused by the story, how can the boys get multiple servings and have multiple snacks in the house but the girl never has any food available. What happens to her first serving? But her eating less than the boys actually makes sense. Someone who does nothing all day but sit on the couch or scroll on their phone doesnt need to eat as much as people doing sports. If she is really worried and wants to solve the malnutrition issue she should have a proper conversation with the family instead of sneaking in some snacks because as soon as they leave her house, they will go back to their own lifestyle anyway and the girl will get less again, so she is not achieving anything to help the girl long term,

    Pawsome
    Community Member
    50 minutes ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    OP is absolutely doing the right thing. I have two brothers who were always much bigger and faster eaters than I was. At one point, I started having to avoid certain food types because of health issues and they would always eat all the food I could eat. I ended up going to be hungry pretty frequently until I could buy my own snacks and hid them (even though my big brother flipped out over me not sharing them). It is absolutely not fun to not be able to eat enough. I was not starving, but I had lost enough weight to be underweight and as a result my health suffered.

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