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123XYZ · commented on 2 posts
almost 2 years ago
I'm sorry both of you had to go through that. Keep on making a valuable contribution by sharing this truth.
You are 100% correct. I'm sorry you had to live through that and hope your family has progressed to a place where they can contribute positively to your life, or are completely out of your life if they're not there.
123XYZ · upvoted 8 items
almost 2 years ago
No matter how frustrated you are, it's abusive to physically take it out on someone, and that includes shoving. A mistake is still abuse. SIL may not have meant to hurt the kid, but she still should not have physically shoved her child except to move them out of danger in an emergency. It was an abusive act. Is the SIL a continual abuser? I doubt it. But she did injure her child, and she needs to deal with her self-control and her impulses so she doesn't do it again.
Me too, Lakota. Back then, that wasn't considered abuse though. It was "discipline."
123XYZ · upvoted 8 items
about 2 years ago
What a load of absolute BS. Your precious SIL didn't "accidentally" push her eldest child. How do you "accidentally" push a child? Answer: you don't. Accidentally pushing someone is when you don't know someone is there or around the corner from you and you walk into them or shove them without seeing them. If your SIL was "frustrated" at her child's "outburst", she absolutely KNEW where her child was. Your SIL pushed her own child down out of anger and frustration, no matter WHY she was frustrated, and caused the child's bone to break. As a child I was frequently pushed, shoved, thrown across the room, and hit by my mother. Was she "frustrated"? Absolutely. Was it ever an "accident"? Absolutely not. Congratulations, you're covering up for someone who harmed their child on purpose. Your SIL may not be a constant abuser, but lashing out and shoving your child to the ground so hard that it results in a BROKEN BONE is abuse, not an "accident". Stop your personal vendetta and your delusions.
As a child who was frequently shoved, pushed, and thrown across the room by my mother when she was "frustrated" or "angry": yes! This is ABUSE. This is not an ACCIDENT.
123XYZ · commented on 5 posts
about 2 years ago
Wow. That was even worse than I expected. Much worse. Summary: Pt. 1: Logistix does a good breakdancing routine. Pt. 2: Raygun struts around a bit and does nothing that can be confused with breakdancing. Pt. 3: I turn it off.
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