
SHOCKING: Hollym1214 - What They Never Told You
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resisting the patriarchy · commented on 3 posts
almost 4 years ago
![“[Would I Be The Jerk] If I Cancelled My Vacation Ticket Because My Family Wants Me To Share A Room With My Nieces?”](https://img.boredpanda.com/unsafe/rs:fit:3840:0/q:80/aHR0cHM6Ly9zdGF0aWMuYm9yZWRwYW5kYS5jb20vYmxvZy93cC1jb250ZW50L3VwbG9hZHMvMjAyMi8xMC9jYW5jZWxsZWQtdmFjYXRpb24tZmFtaWx5LXNoYXJlLXJvb20tbmllY2VzLXJlZGRpdC1sYXRlc3QuanBn.webp)
First it's her /your vacation also. Your family forgot that and expect you yo be discomforted for their comforts. Don't go. Cancel. Its rude how they are treating you and bullying you into going and living circumstance you don't want to. What's the point? To be a babysitter? If it's truly about family being together you should be honored for your needs and have a say to the sleeping arrangements. If those don't work . Don't go
![“[Am I The Jerk] For Wanting My Girlfriend To Wear Appropriate Shoes To An Event?”](https://img.boredpanda.com/unsafe/rs:fit:3840:0/q:80/aHR0cHM6Ly9zdGF0aWMuYm9yZWRwYW5kYS5jb20vYmxvZy93cC1jb250ZW50L3VwbG9hZHMvMjAyMi8wOS9naXJsZnJpZW5kLXdlYXJzLW1lbi1zaG9lcy1ldmVudC1sYXRlc3QuanBn.webp)
Patriarchy men . Indoctrination of women gender coded clothing. She just taught this out of touch man a lesson he's not quite ready to learn.

resisting the patriarchy · commented on a post
about 4 years ago

No matter how many bedrooms it is not your responsibility to play hostess and the neglect of your spouse and his family is horrible. I would be questioning the relationship and lack of boundaries and care for your needs these people have offered. Which is none. Therapy is a great way to start when you're going to end a relationship like this. He is taking advantage of you. He called you a name instead of listening or understanding your needs which also means he didn't even notice you moved into a new room? He's selfish and doesn't care.

resisting the patriarchy · published a post
about 4 years ago