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Willie D'Kay

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I'm a mother of 2 young boys residing in Tokyo and absolutely loving life.

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Willie D'Kay • commented on 26 posts 1 year ago

34 Mistakes People Wish They Didn’t Make With Their Kids As They Are Their Parents’ Mistakes

I'm raising a couple of bilingual sons in Japan and I've purposely taught them all the swear words (for educational purposes lol), with the disclaimer that any English speakers they run into will be less than impressed with those words coming out of pre-teen mouths. I actually couldn't be bothered if they would use the words and there wouldn't be any scolding but so far they seem to keep them in the forbidden file. :)

34 Mistakes People Wish They Didn’t Make With Their Kids As They Are Their Parents’ Mistakes

Competition comparison is bad. My aunt pitted me against my cousin for some weird reason. She was a cheerleader while I have zero interest so I didn't get the point? But my little guy is always worried about being inferior to his big brother. I might say something like, "Sure, you're right, he's really awesomely skilled with that, but you know you are so much more talented in this other area than he was at your age. Isn't it cool that we all have unique strengths and abilities?"

34 Mistakes People Wish They Didn’t Make With Their Kids As They Are Their Parents’ Mistakes

Mom Groups Are Full Of People Who Shouldn’t Be Parents And These 50 Posts Prove It

Which came first? The baby mama (mistress?) or the wife? It kind of makes a difference if he's a cheater or if she's a delu-lu quick to marry new comer. Kid is always innocent tough no matter the circumstances.

Mom Groups Are Full Of People Who Shouldn’t Be Parents And These 50 Posts Prove It

"Unnecessary" is not the correct term. Gross and inappropriate come to mind. And his mother does it too? Disgusting lineage there. Said as a victim of dirty remarks from a step-grandfather that everyone just brushed off as "that's just how he is".

Mom Groups Are Full Of People Who Shouldn’t Be Parents And These 50 Posts Prove It

I would have thought people like this were just a figment of fantasy, but I actually had a neighbor lady like this when I was in high school. God forbid you call her son Mike in front of her. He moved away right after graduation and we never saw him again. I wonder how much she missed her only child Michael?

Mom Groups Are Full Of People Who Shouldn’t Be Parents And These 50 Posts Prove It

There actually is a medical condition where the proper brain chemicals aren't created to control the pee urge when sleeping. My cousin's kid was still wetting the bed as an adult every time she couldn't afford her medication for the disorder. Kids don't wet the bed because they WANT to, geez.

Mom Groups Are Full Of People Who Shouldn’t Be Parents And These 50 Posts Prove It

I'm actually just impressed the day care is changing diapers in that 3-5 minute window where the "pre poop" is all alone in the diaper before the main event. I haven't found a day care yet that is that quick on diaper changes.

Mom Groups Are Full Of People Who Shouldn’t Be Parents And These 50 Posts Prove It

Tell me you don't have a child safe home and you don't supervise your child properly. I accept that the random once off ingested object might slip by, but this looks like a disturbing pattern.

Mom Refuses To Take Daughter To A Party That "Very Clearly Wasn’t Meant For Her"

This is an instance where I would spoil the surprise and show my kid the picture and let them decide. I mean, cake. Prue is definitely TA but I think kids should always be allowed to make their own choices if it's not something harmful and is age appropriate. 5 is old enough to see the passive aggressiveness from Prue. I could see the same c**p from my own relatives at 5. Cleo already has an opinion on Prue and the pink thing, so this won't really change that opinion, but cake. CAKE!

Woman Has Perfect Comeback After BF's Racist "Joke" About Her Upbringing

When someone shows you who they are, believe them. Thankfully unentangling a life before marriage is a lot easier. Bullet dodged. The yta comments scream white privilege.

“Now That I'm Older I Very Much Regret It”: 30 Life Lessons That People Regret Learning Too Late

Honestly, no lessons are really learned too late. Most likely the lesson popped up in your life early on, you just weren't ready to pay attention to it until the consequences of ignoring it finally mattered. The lesson is learned exactly when you are developmentally receptive to it.

“Now That I'm Older I Very Much Regret It”: 30 Life Lessons That People Regret Learning Too Late

Sand in your shoes escalated quite quickly to sexual molestation.....

“Now That I'm Older I Very Much Regret It”: 30 Life Lessons That People Regret Learning Too Late

Here in Japan nearly all retired people that don't immerse themselves in hobbies actually turn to part time jobs or volunteer work to keep busy and active and part of the community. Jobs can give people purpose, especially if it's a job that enriches the lives of your neighbors.

“Now That I'm Older I Very Much Regret It”: 30 Life Lessons That People Regret Learning Too Late

I've looked back at times in my life where I "wasted" a lot of time. But then I asked myself, "did that time wasting activity make me happy in the moment?" It sure did. It wasn't wasted time. It was a period of joy in the one life I have to live. Not everything has to be productive to have value. This entry sounds like someone who would feel obligated to monetize every hobby too. For goodness sake person, you don't need to try to sell your crochet toys when you've only been crocheting for a week!

“Now That I'm Older I Very Much Regret It”: 30 Life Lessons That People Regret Learning Too Late

Sunken cost fallacy. At what point to you stop to accept you're beating your head against a wall and just wasting more time and effort on something just not meant to be? Better than learning to possibly waste more time, learn to reframe regret into confidence that you made a choice to move on and cut your losses.

“Now That I'm Older I Very Much Regret It”: 30 Life Lessons That People Regret Learning Too Late

My romance/real love is seeing the spoon drawer left open for the 3rd time today just like every day for the last 13 years. It used to be a pet peeve. Now I see it as Hubby had a chance to eat good food from our kitchen. He COULD bring me flowers. I prefer knowing he loves my cooking and loves being home with me to eat it. Romance is what you make it and how you choose to see it.

“Now That I'm Older I Very Much Regret It”: 30 Life Lessons That People Regret Learning Too Late

And sadly, I've had to train my kids that just because you have the green pedestrian light, that does not mean a car is following the rules set for them. Situational awareness is a tiring but necessary thing when being around other people.

“Now That I'm Older I Very Much Regret It”: 30 Life Lessons That People Regret Learning Too Late

I managed all this thanks to libraries back in the before time when internet was still just a fictional fantasy. But yes, you can do it yourself.

“Now That I'm Older I Very Much Regret It”: 30 Life Lessons That People Regret Learning Too Late

I sometimes wish they would remove those obvious warning tags from things like "do not use this hair dryer in the shower". If someone is old enough to read and still stupid enough to think they can use an electric appliance to dry their hair while actively wetting it... let Darwinism take over and save the gene pool.

“Now That I'm Older I Very Much Regret It”: 30 Life Lessons That People Regret Learning Too Late

Especially check in on friends that have public facing jobs such as retail sales. They have learned to wear a mask. It's been more than a decade since I've been in that line of work but my fake plastered on smile and chipper voice belie my melancholy.

“Now That I'm Older I Very Much Regret It”: 30 Life Lessons That People Regret Learning Too Late

It's not unlike when we're expected to reference credible academic resources when writing college papers because our own opinion isn't necessarily truth. Opinions are nice and all, but I want to drink up all the facts with evidence.

“Now That I'm Older I Very Much Regret It”: 30 Life Lessons That People Regret Learning Too Late

Small minds with lower than average intelligence somehow like being stagnant. Open minds are open to consider different viewpoints and are eager to learn and evolve. I thought I knew it all and everyone else was wrong. And then I had my 5th birthday, LOL.

“Now That I'm Older I Very Much Regret It”: 30 Life Lessons That People Regret Learning Too Late

I feel this. I love my parents, they are great people. But they also had a very specific idea of what they wanted me to be, and I tried, gosh how I tried. The extended family was a million times worse and I always felt like a blemish even though I was just a little kid trying to be loved. I'm now on the opposite side of the planet married to someone of a different nationality, raising our children in a different culture than that in which I grew up. According to my entire extended family, I am the weird and wild rebellious outcast. And yet I've been blissfully happy for the last 13 years since I stopped trying to fake it for them all.

Best Friend Tells Woman Her Husband Is Cheating, The Lies Destroy Family And Lead To Tragedy

My own mother tried to do something like this with my husband. Maybe because she loves drama? Maybe because she thought it would get me to move myself and my sons back to her on the other side of the planet? Thankfully I was strong enough to tell her to shut it if she wanted to continue having communication with me or her grandkids. Just because she always jumps to the most horrific conclusions when someone is out late does not mean I need to. And definitely do not try to push infidelity conspiracies on an emotionally and mentally fragile person. That is just psychotic cruelty.

Couple Searches For Server After Long Wait, Refuses To Tip On $200 Bill Because Of What They Found

After a lifetime of these kinds of stories from my time in America, I'm so happy to have Japan's restaurant service now. ALL servers are your server. Just put your hand up and whoever is closest swoops in cheerfully to get you whatever you need, immediately. And we don't tip. Tipping is actually kind of like an insult to the owner accusing them of not taking care of their employees. But then again we also actually have non-restaurant options like McDonald's meals that look as beautiful as the advertisement pictures too and sparkling clean facilities.

“What’s The Creepiest Display Of Intelligence You’ve Seen By Another Human?” (23 Answers)

My weird genius thing is I suck at math unless I can see it in action, for example in physics. For me though, crocheting 3D amigurumi toys from flat 2D drawings is especially my gift. My sons call me a human 3D printer. I just like being able to turn their drawings and doodles into actual plushie toys.

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Willie D'Kay • upvoted 14 items 1 year ago

Mom Groups Are Full Of People Who Shouldn’t Be Parents And These 50 Posts Prove It

Tell me you don't have a child safe home and you don't supervise your child properly. I accept that the random once off ingested object might slip by, but this looks like a disturbing pattern.

Mom Groups Are Full Of People Who Shouldn’t Be Parents And These 50 Posts Prove It

Tell me you don't have a child safe home and you don't supervise your child properly. I accept that the random once off ingested object might slip by, but this looks like a disturbing pattern.

34 Mistakes People Wish They Didn’t Make With Their Kids As They Are Their Parents’ Mistakes

75% of the american population is overweight, 44% are obese, 22% are morbidly so. It's a health epidemic that's persisted for over 40 years....yet you can't grasp why showing love ONLY through food would likely be disastrous? Way to miss the point.

Mom Realizes Her Teen Son Was Red-Pilled, Makes Him Change His Mind With Facts And Logic

She's pointing out that some women, and she even says very few women, do like to live lavish lifestyles and be with men who fund that lifestyle (which they are free to do) but men pushing the red pill narrative are mostly just angry that this is the woman they want and she is refusing to lower the standards she has set for herself.

Woman Has Perfect Comeback After BF's Racist "Joke" About Her Upbringing

When someone shows you who they are, believe them. Thankfully unentangling a life before marriage is a lot easier. Bullet dodged. The yta comments scream white privilege.

“Now That I'm Older I Very Much Regret It”: 30 Life Lessons That People Regret Learning Too Late

Sand in your shoes escalated quite quickly to sexual molestation.....

“Now That I'm Older I Very Much Regret It”: 30 Life Lessons That People Regret Learning Too Late

I managed all this thanks to libraries back in the before time when internet was still just a fictional fantasy. But yes, you can do it yourself.

“Now That I'm Older I Very Much Regret It”: 30 Life Lessons That People Regret Learning Too Late

“What’s The Creepiest Display Of Intelligence You’ve Seen By Another Human?” (23 Answers)

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Willie D'Kay • submitted 2 new posts 8 years ago

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I Designed Home-Made Disney Cars Costumes That You Can Make Too! Tell Me What You Think.

I Made This Pattern For A Lightning Mcqueen Costume

Willie D'Kay • submitted 2 list additions 1 year ago

Hey Pandas, What's The Most Embarrassing Foreign Language Fail You've Experienced Or Heard Of? (Closed)

Hey Pandas, Share A Pic Of Your Pet Doing Something Normal Pets Don't Do (Closed)

Willie D'Kay • submitted 10 list additions 8 years ago

Parents Are Sharing The Most Expensive Things Their Kids Ruined, And Some Of Them Will Seriously Scare You

Willie D'Kay • commented on 20 posts 1 year ago

34 Mistakes People Wish They Didn’t Make With Their Kids As They Are Their Parents’ Mistakes

Mom Groups Are Full Of People Who Shouldn’t Be Parents And These 50 Posts Prove It

Tell me you don't have a child safe home and you don't supervise your child properly. I accept that the random once off ingested object might slip by, but this looks like a disturbing pattern.

Mom Refuses To Take Daughter To A Party That "Very Clearly Wasn’t Meant For Her"

Woman Has Perfect Comeback After BF's Racist "Joke" About Her Upbringing

When someone shows you who they are, believe them. Thankfully unentangling a life before marriage is a lot easier. Bullet dodged. The yta comments scream white privilege.

“Now That I'm Older I Very Much Regret It”: 30 Life Lessons That People Regret Learning Too Late

Sand in your shoes escalated quite quickly to sexual molestation.....

“Now That I'm Older I Very Much Regret It”: 30 Life Lessons That People Regret Learning Too Late

I managed all this thanks to libraries back in the before time when internet was still just a fictional fantasy. But yes, you can do it yourself.

“Now That I'm Older I Very Much Regret It”: 30 Life Lessons That People Regret Learning Too Late

Willie D'Kay • upvoted 20 items 1 year ago

34 Mistakes People Wish They Didn’t Make With Their Kids As They Are Their Parents’ Mistakes

Mom Groups Are Full Of People Who Shouldn’t Be Parents And These 50 Posts Prove It

Tell me you don't have a child safe home and you don't supervise your child properly. I accept that the random once off ingested object might slip by, but this looks like a disturbing pattern.

Mom Realizes Her Teen Son Was Red-Pilled, Makes Him Change His Mind With Facts And Logic

Woman Has Perfect Comeback After BF's Racist "Joke" About Her Upbringing

When someone shows you who they are, believe them. Thankfully unentangling a life before marriage is a lot easier. Bullet dodged. The yta comments scream white privilege.

“Now That I'm Older I Very Much Regret It”: 30 Life Lessons That People Regret Learning Too Late

Sand in your shoes escalated quite quickly to sexual molestation.....

“Now That I'm Older I Very Much Regret It”: 30 Life Lessons That People Regret Learning Too Late

I managed all this thanks to libraries back in the before time when internet was still just a fictional fantasy. But yes, you can do it yourself.

“Now That I'm Older I Very Much Regret It”: 30 Life Lessons That People Regret Learning Too Late

Woman Finds Herself Friendless After Cheating And Ruining Ex-Husband’s Life And Gloating About It

Steve is not that Sharpe

Couple Searches For Server After Long Wait, Refuses To Tip On $200 Bill Because Of What They Found

Initiatives to pay servers min wage have been hard to get traction. The servers KNOW that their cries about unfair wages guilt trips stupid patron into freely giving their money away to panhandlers with their food- and almost ALL of the servers are making WELL OVER minimum wage - and they don't declare a good portion of it on their taxes. Servers work the system, fools help them out. Employers don't want to pay a living wage when their servers are doing just fine blackmailing the public.

“What’s The Creepiest Display Of Intelligence You’ve Seen By Another Human?” (23 Answers)

Both of my sons could read before they could speak, so before 18 months for certain. It's not that hard if you read to them and do flashcards in the "Teach your baby to read" style. The only difference is my sons accomplished it in English AND Japanese hiragana. If we give our kids access to information in a way they can absorb it, absorb it they will.

Son's GF Keeps Saying "No Ring, No Wife Duties" After Every Dinner, Mom Doesn't Want Her At House

If she wants to treat it like eating at a restaurant and not actually being invited to act like part of the family while eating a family meal then Mom should start presenting a bill. And even though Singapore isn't a tipping culture, I would tack on a service fee of some sort on top lol.

Son's GF Keeps Saying "No Ring, No Wife Duties" After Every Dinner, Mom Doesn't Want Her At House

no manners ,no meals

Woman Is Sick Of Neighbor’s Kids, Creates A Plan That Leaves Them “Traumatized To Go Outside”

And while she's at it she needs to hang some additional signs around the neighborhood, "Mama gorilla on the loose ALSO banging on doors and calling people bitches! Look out!"

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