Asked me to fix something on her iPad...emails with airfare confirmations to see her ex boyfriend on the other side of the country popped up.

I came home one day and my husband's work phone was going crazy. He had taken my son snow boarding and they weren't going to be home for awhile. I was trying to turn it off and found dozens of messages between him and another woman. He met her while he was working in China. He'd even offered to move her to the US and have her take my place. I confronted him and he swore he'd end it. Well he ended it with her and moved on with a lady in Israel where he was working. Found out about that one when I found photos of them on a trip to Egypt that he said he took alone. And I found out about the 3rd girlfriend when I found naked pictures of her on his tablet and phone. Finally left after that. I knew he'd never change and I don't think he ever truly loved me.

My wife tried calling and didn't hang up once it went to voicemail. She accidentally left a 2:45 VM. The VM consisted of her and her BF talking bad about me and how much happier she was with him.

At the time I was home with our kids and I thought she was 1,800 miles away to be with her dying father. Two years later we are divorced and her father is still alive.