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Unaffected · upvoted 23 items
over 2 years ago
Why can't the dog stay with the friend as planned when the OP was going out of town? Tripling the size of the household while the dog is still in transition is a terrible idea. By the OP's own admission (though she uses different words) the dog is unpredictable the added stress is going to affect him and she can't be sure how much or in what way. Her sister-in-law is fearful and the dog will probably sense it. If he knows she fears him, he could become aggressive. If he doesn't know what she's afraid of, he may become fearful also. Either way, no onr can ensure how he will react and she's putting him in an unfair position. She doesn't care as much about her dog's safety as she does about winning the argument.
NAH. Having been in a similar situation to SIL I can emphasis with her problem. Just knowing that the dog is in the house can be very stressful, but it is.the only compromise that could work out. Rescue dogs especially are especially bad, because they usually have a lot of past trauma with them and can be unknown quantities. OPs adoption comment was an unintentional punch in the guts. She is no AH for.it, but SIL sure as hell will feel this way.
Unaffected · commented on 17 posts
over 2 years ago
4,5/5 starts though? :)
