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“I Still Love Her”: Guy Leaves Wife And Kids To ‘Find Himself’, Regrets It
Close-up of a man with tears, looking regretful. He still loves his wife and kids. #regret #loves

INSANE: Husband divorce breadwinner wife asks help - The Real Truth

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True love is hard to find and when you finally meet the man or woman of your dreams, you should hang onto them for dear life. But too often, perfectly good relationships fall to pieces because of one partner’s fragile ego. Case in point: a man who says he left his wife and kids because he couldn’t handle the fact she was the breadwinner.

Fast forward years later, and the man can’t shake the feeling that he made a terrible mistake. He claims to still be in love with his lawyer ex but is worried she might not feel the same way. In a moment of vulnerability, he decided to bare his soul. Here’s what happened next…

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    He married the woman of his dreams, then ended up leaving her because he couldn’t handle the fact that she was the breadwinner

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    Years later, and he realizes he may have made the biggest mistake of his life

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    The man didn’t get the sympathy he was hoping for as some called him out for his “cringe” behavior

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    Some had advice for him while others had harsh words

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    He later revealed he’d taken his ex-wife on a date

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    The couple went on a few more dates and was considering telling their children

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    He provided another update a few months later

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    “What a pathetic man”: many people felt the wife deserved better

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    cory ahlm
    Community Member
    1 hour ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why is he going to ask her to marry him if they are still married? Because it's a fake story.

    Sky Huynh
    Community Member
    47 minutes ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Mʏ ʟᴀsᴛ ᴘᴀʏ ᴄʜᴇᴄᴋ ᴡᴀs $8500 ᴡᴏʀᴋɪɴɢ 10 ʜᴏᴜʀs ᴀ ᴡᴇᴇᴋ ᴏɴʟɪɴᴇ. My younger brother friend has been averaging 12k for months now and he works about 22 hours a week. I cant believe how easy it was once I tried it out. Tʜɪs ɪs ᴡʜᴀt I ᴅᴏ....... 𝗷­𝗼­𝗯­𝗮­𝘁­𝗵­𝗼­𝗺­𝗲­𝟭.𝗰­𝗼­𝗺

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    LakotaWolf (she/her)
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    3 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If this story is even true (which I highly doubt), OP is going to bail again the second that some other insecurity hits him, like middle age, or weight gain, or a minor health crisis like high blood pressure. He'll convince himself that he "isn't good enough" for his wife and kids and "needs to leave" in order to "find/fix himself". He ditched his three young children and the woman he insists is his soulmate (and that he loved soooo much throughout the YEARS of separation) all because he didn't feel like he was Mr. Manly Man and the main breadwinner? Yeah, the second he gets a few gray hairs in his 40s, he's going to ditch his family again, because he still hasn't fixed the root of the problem... which is himself.

    Megalodon Meg
    Community Member
    56 minutes ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    100. I hope this p**s poor writer wrote this p**s poor story and none of this is true because if it is g*****n did someone's father f*****g fail him.

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    Malakai
    Community Member
    5 minutes ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can see why he was struggling to make it as a writer.

    cory ahlm
    Community Member
    1 hour ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why is he going to ask her to marry him if they are still married? Because it's a fake story.

    Sky Huynh
    Community Member
    47 minutes ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Mʏ ʟᴀsᴛ ᴘᴀʏ ᴄʜᴇᴄᴋ ᴡᴀs $8500 ᴡᴏʀᴋɪɴɢ 10 ʜᴏᴜʀs ᴀ ᴡᴇᴇᴋ ᴏɴʟɪɴᴇ. My younger brother friend has been averaging 12k for months now and he works about 22 hours a week. I cant believe how easy it was once I tried it out. Tʜɪs ɪs ᴡʜᴀt I ᴅᴏ....... 𝗷­𝗼­𝗯­𝗮­𝘁­𝗵­𝗼­𝗺­𝗲­𝟭.𝗰­𝗼­𝗺

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    LakotaWolf (she/her)
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    3 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If this story is even true (which I highly doubt), OP is going to bail again the second that some other insecurity hits him, like middle age, or weight gain, or a minor health crisis like high blood pressure. He'll convince himself that he "isn't good enough" for his wife and kids and "needs to leave" in order to "find/fix himself". He ditched his three young children and the woman he insists is his soulmate (and that he loved soooo much throughout the YEARS of separation) all because he didn't feel like he was Mr. Manly Man and the main breadwinner? Yeah, the second he gets a few gray hairs in his 40s, he's going to ditch his family again, because he still hasn't fixed the root of the problem... which is himself.

    Megalodon Meg
    Community Member
    56 minutes ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    100. I hope this p**s poor writer wrote this p**s poor story and none of this is true because if it is g*****n did someone's father f*****g fail him.

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    Malakai
    Community Member
    5 minutes ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can see why he was struggling to make it as a writer.

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