Stopping breastfeeding my baby offers a bittersweet relief My journey through mixed feeding has been painful and beautiful in equal measure, says Guardian columnist Rhiannon Lucy Cosslett The Guardian - UK · Apr 7, 2023
‘One and done’ parents are some of the most thoughtful and compassionate I have met It’s time to retire the offensive, outdated idea that having only one child is somehow selfish or unfair, says the Guardian columnist Rhiannon Lucy Cosslett The Guardian - UK · Mar 31, 2023
George Eustice’s drivel about stay-at-home mums reinforces the trap set by society for women If the Tory MP really valued the role of women in early-years childcare, he’d offer them financial support. But he hasn’t, says Guardian columnist Rhiannon Lucy Cosslett The Guardian - UK · Mar 20, 2023
Finally, a budget that mentions childcare. But where will these magic nursery places come from, Jeremy Hunt? The chancellor’s early-years promise won’t be delivered until after an election, says the Guardian columnist Rhiannon Lucy Cosslett The Guardian - UK · Mar 16, 2023
As parents, can we all agree that a bit of screen time for children is actually a good thing? Letting our children watch TV can feel like a shameful secret. Let’s throw off the guilt and embrace the benefits of CBeebies, says Guardian columnist Rhiannon Lucy Cosslett The Guardian - UK · Mar 15, 2023
It’s the oldest rule in British politics: don’t threaten to mass murder voters’ cats during a pandemic In 2020, the government considered plans to cull our furry friends. It would have been the final straw, says Guardian columnist Rhiannon Lucy Cosslett The Guardian - UK · Mar 6, 2023
Having a baby after pregnancy loss is a joy. But it may never wipe the slate clean A revealing new book challenges the notion of miscarriage as a blip in the past, says Guardian columnist Rhiannon Lucy Cosslett The Guardian - UK · Mar 1, 2023
You don’t need pricey gear and high design to be a good parent, but a decent pair of socks helps Alongside all the false promises and guilt-trip sales offers are clever inventions and ingenious tech that can make life a lot easier, says Guardian columnist Rhiannon Lucy Cosslett The Guardian - UK · Feb 21, 2023
Feeling guilty for putting your baby in nursery? That suits the government just fine We need to start thinking in Britain of paid childcare as a life-enriching right, not a slightly uncomfortable necessity, says Guardian columnist Rhiannon Lucy Cosslett The Guardian - UK · Feb 13, 2023
As a girl, I was thrilled by the night sky. Must my son grow up without seeing the Milky Way? I love the idea of my boy and his dad peering through a telescope together, writes Rhiannon Lucy Cosslett. But what will light pollution leave for them to look at? The Guardian - UK · Jan 24, 2023
I was unashamed of my mental illness – so why did it make me question becoming a mum? When Rhiannon Lucy Cosslett weighed up the decision to have a child, she found herself frightened by the prospect of being a parent who’d struggled with mental health – and may struggle again The Independent UK · Jan 24, 2023
Reading is precious – which is why I’ve been giving away my books I’m donating my books to people who can most benefit from them. Why keep a novel that could delight someone else? The Guardian - UK · Jan 23, 2023
‘It felt good to be needed’: how getting a cat prepared me for motherhood Mackerel turned out to be a Trojan cat for all the things I didn’t want to confront – and she taught me how to care again The Guardian - US · Jan 18, 2023
Many people celebrate friends’ pregnancies – with no way of expressing their own longing for children Fertility support groups offer comfort to some, but the ache for something that may never happen is all too often kept secret, says Guardian columnist Rhiannon Lucy Cosslett The Guardian - UK · Jan 11, 2023
The Guardian - UK · Jan 10, 2023 Fabulous felines: why female artists love stroking, painting and spoiling cats Suzanne Valadon fed hers caviar. Leonor Fini kept two dozen. And when Tracey Emin lost hers, the missing posters fetched £500 each. The writer of a new book about painters and moggies celebrates furry muses
The Guardian - UK · Jan 6, 2023 I left my baby to write this. How do artists balance creativity and the ache for their child? All writers and painters who are mothers must tread a heroic path. In an ideal world, we wouldn’t have to, says the Guardian columnist Rhiannon Lucy Cosslett
The Guardian - UK · Dec 13, 2022 When parents are struggling to feed their babies, why don’t all food banks offer formula? A resistance to making formula too easily available is patronising, shaming and dangerous, says Guardian columnist Rhiannon Lucy Cosslett
The Guardian - UK · Dec 6, 2022 Grandparents are the invisible glue, holding our broken childcare system together My parents have been a huge help with the baby, but I wish they had the choice to take it easy, says Guardian columnist Rhiannon Lucy Cosslett
The Guardian - UK · Nov 28, 2022 Why is my baby crying? I used to Google for hours – then discovered the real answer Millennial parents can frantically search online, but ancient wisdom states the reason is almost always ‘probably wind’, says Guardian columnist Rhiannon Lucy Cosslett
The Guardian - UK · Nov 17, 2022 There is nothing like a trip to A&E with a sick baby to make you eternally grateful for our NHS The health service hangs by a thread, and yet its staff continue to treat everyone with such kindness and patience, says Guardian columnist Rhiannon Lucy Cosslett
The Guardian - UK · Nov 7, 2022 I hated being told I should ‘cherish every moment’ of motherhood – now I understand Raising a baby is a huge challenge. No wonder many new parents resent the cult of compulsory joy, says Guardian columnist Rhiannon Lucy Cosslett
The Guardian - UK · Nov 1, 2022 Queer families are teaching us there are many ways to be a mother While heterosexual couples may struggle with traditional gender roles, queer motherhood offers a radical, beautiful alternative, says Guardian columnist Rhiannon Lucy Cosslett
The Guardian - UK · Oct 25, 2022 Loneliness is a struggle for new parents – can we all stop pretending everything’s ok? Isolation, exacerbated by social pressure and cuts to services, can lead to postnatal depression, says Guardian columnist Rhiannon Lucy Cosslett
The Guardian - UK · Oct 18, 2022 ‘Why should I pay for you to have a child?’ This is the state of the debate on childcare right now A fair and successful society respects and takes care of its young citizens, as well as their parents, says the Guardian columnist Rhiannon Lucy Cosslett
The Guardian - UK · Oct 10, 2022 I’ve stopped trying to be the perfect mum, and it’s a huge relief We’re told that motherhood is supposed to be your life’s work. But the 360-degree model is bad for me and for my baby, says Rhiannon Lucy Cosslett