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The Guardian - UK
The Guardian - UK
Politics
Anna Moore

HISTORICAL FACTS: I had to be broken to be fixed the courses trying to change abusive men - The Untold Story

Domestic violence illustration.

In this Zoom call, four men are looking at a list of family duties and marking which they do themselves and which they have been leaving to their partners. Earning money. School run. Laundry. Ironing. Cooking. Cleaning the bathroom. Buying school uniform. Putting children to bed …

Next, they discuss why that may be. “It’s just how we operate,” says one, a man who is no longer living with his partner, but spending a lot of time with her and their new baby. “She loves cooking. I don’t iron. She does iron …” He runs out of steam.

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