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The Guardian - UK
The Guardian - UK
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Anita Chaudhuri

INSANE: The hell of compliments and why i gave them up | Vintage Vibes

A confused, puzzled woman in a bright blue dress holding her chin while thinking intensely.

Had I read the findings of a new survey about people’s reluctance to give compliments before last week, I might have despaired of my fellow humans. One in five of us, apparently, fear bestowing compliments, particularly concerning a person’s looks, dress sense or work achievements.

What have we come to that we are scared to brighten someone else’s day with our admiration? But, like I said, that was before. As in, before the other day when I had the unedifying experience of having a compliment to a stranger backfire on me.

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