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The Guardian - UK
The Guardian - UK
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BIZARRE: When giving up your seat for others is simply polite | Mind Blowing Facts

People standing on a crowded train
‘There is nothing nuanced about it: they are either thoughtless or plain selfish.’ Photograph: Alamy

The suggestion that young, fit people do not offer their seats on public transport to vulnerable people for fear of offending them is nonsense (Is anything more awkward – and potentially insulting – than giving up your seat on public transport?, 7 September). I was brought up to offer my seat to any woman (of whatever disposition) or elderly person as a matter of principle. In 60 years of doing so, I have never had other than a polite demurral – more usually acceptance.

Now that the boot is on the other foot (for which I need a walking stick to maintain my balance), I find that about 30% of young people will instinctively offer me succour, which I gratefully and gracefully accept. The rest don’t seem to care.

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