She is not always trying to start an argument. Sometimes, she is simply trying to be heard. She wants to explain what hurt her, what feels wrong and what she hopes can change. She may repeat herself because the problem still feels unresolved, not because she enjoys conflict. But something painful can happen. The conversation starts with her feelings and somehow ends with her mistakes. She tries to explain the problem, but the discussion turns into an accusation against her. Eventually, she hears words like "toxic", "too sensitive" or "always complaining". And slowly, she may stop talking. That silence can be more serious than the arguments that came before it.
