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My husband won’t make any effort to please me in bed

This may be more to do with ageing than a lack of love. Talk about it – hopefully you can work out a new repertoire together

The Guardian - UK · Aug 9

Bigger is always better – and nine other sex myths busted

Think only men suffer performance anxiety, your libido is set in stone or porn destroys intimacy? Experts debunk the most common misconceptions about your sex life

The Guardian - UK · Jul 11, 2025

My husband is unfaithful and wants an open relationship. Is it time for us to split?

We’ve been together a long time but now he says I either accept an open marriage or we get a divorce. The only way I cope is by turning to alcohol

The Guardian - UK · Jan 10, 2025

The orgasm gap – and how to close it: ‘Don’t equate sex and penetration’

In heterosexual sex, men climax more than women. But when we focus solely on the big O, we can miss other forms of sexual pleasure

The Guardian - UK · Mar 21, 2023

Prep your replies, take deep breaths (and don’t apologise for burnt spuds) – how to get through Christmas without falling out with your family

Here’s how to keep calm around the dinner table this year with our advice expert’s guide to defusing festive feuds

The Guardian - UK · Dec 16, 2022

I love you but I don’t want to see you for the next six weeks: the case for a ‘marriage sabbatical’

It’s not a divorce, a trial separation or a chance for a guilt-free fling, just an opportunity for husbands and wives to live apart, forget all the little irritations and realise how much they miss each other. At least that’s the theory …

The Guardian - UK · Sep 21, 2022

My 13-year-old son is being exposed to porn – how can I protect him?

Not being pro- or anti-porn is the best stance to have for young people, so you don’t encourage them, nor shame them

The Guardian - UK · May 27, 2022