INSANE: 6 - The Real Truth

From joint accounts to wealthier friends – why is money so hard to talk about?

Money is always the elephant in the room, and can be even harder to talk about than sex – but we can all benefit from a frank conversation, says Annalisa Barbieri

The Guardian - UK · May 3, 2024

My brother bullied me, which has had a lifelong impact. Can I build bridges with him now?

He is the one who should be saying sorry. There’s no miracle cure, but do consider therapy, and keep good people around you

The Guardian - UK · Apr 26, 2024

My friend ranks his friendships in a league table – and it worries me

You need to consider why this bothers you so much and if you should bring it up. Without asking directly, it’s hard to know his motivation

The Guardian - UK · Apr 19, 2024

I’m finding it hard to accept that I may never have a daughter

Try not to dwell on what you feel is missing, but instead focus on the positive relationships and values you can nurture with your sons• Every week Annalisa Barbieri addresses a family-related problem sent in by a reader

The Guardian - UK · Mar 15, 2024

Notes on chocolate: it’s time to start looking forward to Easter

Life has taught me that the best things sell out early, writes Annalisa Barbieri

The Guardian - UK · Mar 10, 2024

My sister-in-law has treated her family terribly. I avoid her but still feel bad about it

It’s not up to you to fix this, but it might be worth asking her what’s going on

The Guardian - UK · Mar 1, 2024

My best friend and I disagreed over talking about sex – now she’s no longer speaking to me

It sounds as if there might be something else at play here. Either way, I’d think seriously about whether you actually want the friendship to continue

The Guardian - UK · Feb 23, 2024

How can I overcome the fear that my depression makes me a bad parent?

Like all mothers who worry about ‘passing something on’, your thoughtfulness and awareness will help make a difference

The Guardian - UK · Feb 16, 2024

I live with a younger man who denies our sexual history

Your partner feeling uncomfortable talking about sex is one thing, but someone erasing your past is a problem

The Guardian - UK · Feb 9, 2024

Have a bathroom each: tips for a successful multigenerational holiday

With an easyJet promotion encouraging families to holiday with grandparents, we ask how to ensure it works well

The Guardian - UK · Feb 2, 2024