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‘Don’t get into the it’s-not-fair game!’ How to survive the hell of sibling rivalry – as a child and a parent

No one squabbles as hard, as long and as often as brothers and sisters – over toys, clothes, music, who is most loved, who has the best life … But there are ways to detoxify almost any relationship

The Guardian - UK · Nov 20, 2023

I’ve always wanted to visit England – and feel hurt that my two sisters have planned a trip there without me

Ask them why, which may encourage them to take responsibility for hurting you. Then look into going on your own or with a group

The Guardian - UK · Nov 10, 2023

My friends are in debt but won’t rein in their lifestyle. And I feel pressured to keep up

Money is tight for many of us, but not everyone responds to this in the same way. Don’t be drawn into difficulties yourself for the sake of seeming supportive

The Guardian - UK · Nov 3, 2023

I feel sickened with myself for shouting at my child. Please help

You say you’d never hurt your children, but you do seem scared of losing control

The Guardian - UK · Sep 29, 2023

How do I find a balance between work, family and my new partner?

Your mum is ill, you’re divorcing your children’s father and there’s a new boyfriend in the mix. You need a routine to help you divide your time wisely

The Guardian - UK · Sep 22, 2023

My friends haven’t been there for me since my dad’s death

Death is scary. It’s understandable that you expect more support from your friends, but you might need to be the one to start the conversation

The Guardian - UK · Sep 15, 2023

My friend is working so hard it’s affecting her health and family. How can I help?

She could be using work to escape something else – but listen and empathise rather than telling her what she’s doing wrong

The Guardian - UK · Sep 8, 2023

My stepson lives with a girlfriend twice his age. Should I be worried?

You wanted him to move out and become independent, but now he is choosing a lifestyle you don’t like. Take care not to push him away

The Guardian - UK · Sep 1, 2023

Should I still see my difficult sister now our parents have died?

There’s clearly a lot of pain for both of you – and your stories need to be heard if you are to break the see-saw pattern

The Guardian - UK · Aug 25, 2023

I’m worried my mum is rushing into marriage with her new boyfriend

It’s not unusual to feel left out and suspicious about a parent starting a new relationship, but it’s important to seek reassurance from your mother

The Guardian - UK · Aug 18, 2023