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What Chanakya Said About Windfall Money and Why Your Bonus Disappears

The Bonus That Arrives and EvaporatesEvery October, a few lakhs hit accounts that were not expecting them. By November, most of it is gone, new appliances, a trip that felt justified, gifts that felt obligatory, a round of dinners that felt celebratory. The money was real. The spending felt like…

Times Life · Oct 16

Experience: I rate benches

My Instagram page started as something to amuse my friends, but it took off – and led to me meeting Sophie, who is now my wife

The Guardian - UK · Oct 16

Squalane, Jojoba or Rosehip: Which Facial Oil Works in Indian Summer Heat

Why Facial Oils Behave Differently in HumiditySkin produces more sebum when temperatures rise. Add 70 to 90 percent relative humidity, standard across coastal and central India from April through September, and the skin's surface is already saturated with its own lipids before you apply anything. A facial oil layered on…

Times Life · Oct 16

Your Chosen Family Has No Legal Name in India. It Shows Up Anyway.

The form never has a box for themHospital admission forms ask for a relative. Emergency contacts at the office ask for a relative. The lease wants a guarantor, and the guarantor should ideally be family. In Indian law, family is a narrow word, parents, siblings, a spouse, children. The friend…

Times Life · Oct 16

Sindoor Khela and the Women Who Were Never Called In

The Threshold Has a Name You know where the line is before anyone draws it. You have always known. It is not marked on the floor of the pandal, not written in the puja guidelines distributed by the committee. It lives in the way a woman's feet slow before she…

Times Life · Oct 16

Sivasagar and the Ahom Monuments: Six Centuries of Assam History Near the Tea Belt

What the Ahoms Built and Why It LastedThe Ahom kingdom did not fall to the Mughals. That fact alone is worth the journey to Sivasagar. From 1228 to 1826, a dynasty that arrived from present-day Myanmar held the Brahmaputra valley through six centuries of war, flood, and internal fracture, and…

Times Life · Oct 16

Mechuka, Arunachal Pradesh: Days, Permits and Patience It Demands

The Permit Stack You Need Before You Book AnythingMechuka requires two separate documents, and neither can substitute for the other. The Inner Line Permit, or ILP, is mandatory for any non-Arunachali Indian citizen entering the state. It is issued online through the Arunachal Pradesh government portal or at designated offices…

Times Life · Oct 16

Durga Puja in Bishnupur and Murshidabad: Bengal's Oldest Courtyards

What a Bonedi Bari Puja Actually IsDurga Puja in a bonedi bari is not a public event that a family happens to host. It is a private ritual that a family has agreed, for generations, to let the neighbourhood watch. The zamindar families of Bengal began commissioning their own Durga…

Times Life · Oct 16

How Colonial Rule Broke Temple Economies and Reshaped Hindu Worship

The Temple as an Economic InstitutionBefore the British reorganised the subcontinent's revenue systems, a major temple was not primarily a place of prayer. It was a redistributive engine. Endowments called devadaya or devasthanam lands, granted by rulers, merchants, and local chieftains across dynasties from the Cholas to the Vijayanagara empire,…

Times Life · Oct 16

Bathukamma: The Telangana Festival Where Flowers Become a Goddess

A Goddess You Build With Your Own HandsBathukamma begins not in a temple but in a field. The flowers used, tangedu, gunugu, banti, celosia, cucumber flowers, are not cultivated for the occasion. They grow wild after the monsoon, in the margins of tanks and along bund walls, and the women…

Times Life · Oct 16