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What can we do to stop our son’s post-nursery meltdowns?

You think he is being unreasonable; he probably thinks the same of you. But at his young age he doesn’t know how to deal with his feelings

The Guardian - UK · May 5, 2023

Notes on chocolate: a Eurovision box of chocolate hits

There are no ‘nul points’ in this super selection

The Guardian - UK · Apr 30, 2023

My mother’s grief is making our relationship toxic

You are not responsible for your mother. You have your own losses – and young children – to deal with

The Guardian - UK · Apr 28, 2023

My mother-in-law is so possessive about our unborn baby. What can I do?

Set boundaries about contact you’ll have with your in-laws – and don’t put your husband in the position of defending his family

The Guardian - UK · Mar 24, 2023

I’m lonely, in my 30s, and find it very hard to make new friends

Social anxiety and a dislike of party culture can create a void of loneliness, but there are ways to beat the fear

The Guardian - UK · Mar 17, 2023

I feel the pull of family in New Zealand but worry about leaving my London life

It’s possible that you are searching for a sense of belonging stemming from your childhood, when you moved around a lot. Don’t rush this decision

The Guardian - UK · Mar 10, 2023

I’ll miss my office husband after we’ve retired. How do I get to keep him?

Whether your friendship survives retirement depends largely on how he and his actual wife view the situation

The Guardian - UK · Mar 3, 2023

My nine-year-old son still wants to sleep in my bed. Should I let him?

You’re in charge, and as someone once told me – a mother who is always available never really is

The Guardian - UK · Feb 24, 2023

I’m 40 and my parents are still body-shaming me

They could be projecting their own issues on to you. You feel attractive, fit and accept yourself – it’s time to zone out their criticism

The Guardian - UK · Feb 17, 2023

My adult daughters are angry with me for leaving the country. What can I do?

Divorce, grief and illness have been traumatic events for you all, and your daughters’ shared emotions suggest it’s time to listen

The Guardian - UK · Feb 10, 2023